Triangular Theory Of Love

Most people when they hear the word love immediately think of romance and marriage. Love does not only mean that. It can be dissected into multiple categories as shown in the triangle. Love is not only having feelings for someone but it also can mean your best friends with someone and you love them does not actually mean you love them romantically. Love is a very broad topic.

Reflection

What I noticed after reading all these people's reactions about love is that the down side of falling in love most deffinatly outweighs the up side. Many people look so happy when their in love but that's only when you view them. Lots of time falling in love involves a lot of fighting which is not the worst thing in the world because that does make the relationship stronger. Although there blog post do describe a lot about the downside of love they also describe the up side too it. They mention how its the greatest feeling ever to have someone care about you, too know that their your best friend and your their best friend.  Being in love isn't the worst thing.

Childless

Over the past few years studies have concurred that there used to be a rate of every 1 an 10 couples being childless but now that number has dropped down to every 1 an 5 couples are kidless, you might ask yourself why? Well now a days a human can make a judgment call much earlier in life and some women are just not able to fertilize, other women are unable to have those feelings that they want kids until there 65 and then have there first kid. Other women worry about there work, social, and economic life. Many women are afraid that once they have a kid they will not be able to socialize were there friend group anymore and will become lonely. Often times many women are afraid with their work situation either they don't know if there going to be able to have the time off. Or they are just so caught up in the moment at work that they just do not want to leave and want to continue with their job. Economic reasons is a huge reason why a lot of couples do not want to have kids. The amount of money a kid will cost you is atrocious and there not willing to put that much money that they could be using for vacation for them or there retirement plan down on a little dweeb. Lots of parents also don't want to have kids because of their nosiness Also "parents" wouldn't want to have to deal with the amount of time they would have to put into kids in driving them places and taking care of them, not having their schedule match up with you schedule it would be a lot of relentless tiring hours there not wanting to give up for an annoying little kid.Often times parents aren't really willing enough to have to deal with the girlhood in their main stage when there bitches.

Interviewing Parents

CJ: Was it easy being the oldest of 4 in your family?

Mom: No not really my mom was kind of experimenting with me because i was the oldest so there were some things she would let me do and other things that i wanted to do but i was unable too.

CJ: Was it hard on your family that you never really got to see your father or only saw him on weekends?

Mom: We really only grew up with a mom i mean we would see him on weekends but that was about it and the amount time i was in that house all we were really saying to each other was hi and bye.

CJ: What did your mom do for work?

Mom: She was a teacher at Easton elementary school.

CJ: Did she make a lot of money or did you kind of provide for yourself?

Mom: She gave us money, but very little. Once i hit 14 i was out there finding a job and no more money was given.

CJ: Did you try to act as a role model toward your younger siblings?

Mom: I mean we had our fights like every other normal pair of siblings in the world. But i kept an eye on them to make sure they weren't slacking or going down a bad road or anything.

CJ: If you could go back and change anything about the way your family was, what would it be?

Mom: Being able to have a better relationship with my dad, spending more time with him having more conversations exc.

CJ: Did you hate being the youngest of two in your family?

Dad: I did but i didn't because i feel like they gave me more freedom than my older sister but had higher expectations from me.

CJ: You came from a lower class family, was money back then hard to come by?

Dad: Yeah the only way we were able to get money was by working my parents didn't just hand it out and say go have fun.

CJ: At what age did you get your first job?

Dad: 13

CJ: What was it?

Dad: Picking cotten on a cotten field from 6 a.m- 4:45 p.m

CJ: Damn, manual labor huh?

Dad: Yeah you guys don't have it hard at all go back to those days and then you'll take what you think now is hard for granted.

CJ: Did your parents ever say take a break to you or anything?

Dad: No, in fact they wanted me to get another job so i could have more money but i told them this job is enough and makes enough money.

CJ: What was your relationship with your parents like?

Dad: Tough Love.

CJ: So did you guys ever just have a nice conversation or anything?

Dad: Yes we had those but most of the time they were being strict and demanding me too do something.

CJ: That's unfortunate, thanks for both of your time ill see ya guys around the house,

Love

Love in my perception is represented in the song " Love Story" by Taylor Swift. Song is a straight jam and pretty much sums up what love is like how one and another should feel toward each other and describing how one and another is. Here is the lyrics.

We were both young when I first saw you.
I close my eyes and the flashback starts:
I'm standing there on a balcony in summer air.

See the lights, see the party, the ball gowns.
See you make your way through the crowd
And say, "Hello,"
Little did I know...

That you were Romeo, you were throwing pebbles,
And my daddy said, "Stay away from Juliet"
And I was crying on the staircase
Begging you, "Please don't go"
And I said...

Romeo, take me somewhere we can be alone.
I'll be waiting; all that's left to do is run.
You'll be the prince and I'll be the princess,
It's a love story, baby, just say, "Yes."

So I sneak out to the garden to see you.
We keep quiet 'cause we're dead if they knew
So close your eyes... escape this town for a little while.
Oh, oh.

'Cause you were Romeo – I was a scarlet letter,
And my daddy said, "Stay away from Juliet."
But you were everything to me,
I was begging you, "Please don't go."
And I said...

Romeo, take me somewhere we can be alone.
I'll be waiting; all that's left to do is run.
You'll be the prince and I'll be the princess.
It's a love story, baby, just say, "Yes."

Romeo, save me, they're trying to tell me how to feel.
This love is difficult but it's real.
Don't be afraid, we'll make it out of this mess.
It's a love story, baby, just say, "Yes."

Oh, oh.

I got tired of waiting
Wondering if you were ever coming around.
My faith in you was fading
When I met you on the outskirts of town.
And I said...

"Romeo, save me, I've been feeling so alone.
I keep waiting for you but you never come.
Is this in my head? I don't know what to think."
He knelt to the ground and pulled out a ring and said...

"Marry me, Juliet, you'll never have to be alone.
I love you, and that's all I really know.
I talked to your dad – go pick out a white dress
It's a love story, baby, just say, "Yes."

Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh.

'Cause we were both young when I first saw you.

New Thoughts

Over the past few weeks of school and doing these daily exposures every day in english class i have started to recognize something. My voice isn't the only voice being voiced. Many other people share their opinions in different ways then i do. They do not just say it out like i do, instead they put it to the tune of the song what there thinking about. Or the also just put into a sequential cartoon. I was not able to really understand or comprehend the meaning of the daily exposure at first. But as the weeks have progressed i have been able to understand and been able to relate to it knowing i'm not the only one that has an opinion.

Difficult Conversation

Police Officer and Parents.

Police Officer: M'am i don't know how to tell you this but your daughter has gone missing.

Parents: WHAT?! We just dropped him off at day care 2 hours ago.

Police: Some mysterious man came in and said he was picking Billy up from pre school.

Parents: And those idiots believed him?!

Police: I guess so, we're terribly sorry about this miscue and we have team gathering evidence right now about this mysterious man.

Parents: Well do you have a lead or anything?

Police: Right now we have a description of the man being 5'11 with blue eyes.

Parents: Ok please keep us informed.

Police: M'am i am not sure how to tell you this but we just found Billy's body behind an old farm house in Avon Hills.

Parents: So your telling me my child is dead... OH MY GOD ( Crying hysterically) 

Parents: This is all the pre schools fault those idiots should've never let that mysterious men pick up our child.

Police: Again m'am were very sorry were doing everything we can to find this cold hearted killer.